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“When he said that one of the girls in my friend group had ‘perfectly shaped boobs.’ Sounds like a small thing, but he knew my breasts were my biggest insecurity. We were even out with his best friend, and they both saw .Instead of getting angry, I just started tearing up, my boyfriend’s friend tried to make sure that I apologized on behalf of my boyfriend. spent years together, and most of the time I loved her in every way, and we could see each other for a long time, and they showed me kindness and welcomed me into their family with open arms, I consider her sister one of my best friends. I am, and it’s hard to write this thinking that I might not be able to talk to any of them.”
“He checked all my boxes; he was open-minded with the same curiosity about the world as I was; he was kind, funny and patient, and our future was so wonderfully lined up; on paper, we had no reason for ourselves. The relationship was forever. wouldn’t last, but we never went on a date, or at least he would never take me out, he forced me to plan the whole day and let him in. He ordered us never to leave the house, usually me. By paying or splitting 50/50 this really started to wear on me when I saw how easily he made plans for himself when he wanted to do things that normally didn’t involve me (mostly golfing).
When it came to his plans and what he wanted to do, I would always make him my first priority, and I would always show up, whether he wanted to try a new restaurant he liked or hang out with old friends; I was always there. He started making me feel that I was definitely not important to him. The best way I could explain it to him was that he would never give me his free time because he was constantly making plans on my days off (golfing or going on weekend trips with the boys) without mentioning it to me. I was constantly booking days off to ensure we would spend time together. When he would complain, I would work all weekend, and then most of the weekend I would feel horrible about myself because my plans were always pushed aside if he had something better to do.
“I felt like I was becoming insecure, and it was affecting my self-esteem because I had no problem getting male attention, but I felt like I had to beg for it. I’m 20(F), and I’m very young. I’m too young to be in a relationship that makes it hard to love.”
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